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Many Voices

January 27, 2011 by Sarah

I am honored and thrilled to be blogging for Many Voices.

Many Voices is an online clearinghouse for Christian clergy and congregations who are trying to become more open and welcoming to people on the full spectrum of sexuality and gender.

As I’ve been learning recently, there is a growing, multi-faith movement to welcome LGBT people into American congregations. Religious organizations of all denominations, ranging from the most progressive to the most conservative, are beginning to shift the way that they approach their gay, lesbian, and gender-nonconforming congregants. And Many Voices, who is reaching tens of thousands of clergy members, is one of the agents of this change.

Many Voices executive director Ann Thompson Cook told me that clergy members often long to extend full welcome to LGBT people, but have concerns about how, or simply may not know where, to begin. These clergy who are “supportive but silent” are one of Many Voices’s target audiences, and at Many Voices they can find a space for resource sharing, discussion, and learning how to open up their congregations to a broader range of people.

Thompson Cook told me their research shows that young peoples’ distress is one way to move supportive-but-silent clergy to become public in their support. If a religious tradition does not welcome (or actively condemns) gay people, they tend to not look too kindly on a boy in a dress. So the fact that I—the Jewish mom of a pink boy—have been called to blog for this group of Christians speaks volumes about the shifts taking place in American religion. My first post is here, and my second here. I will regularly appear on their pages, and I’m eager to see what the response is from their membership.

Please check out their site and let me and Many Voices know what you think!

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Filed Under: Uncategorized Tagged With: "gender variant" "gender nonconforming" "gender spectrum" "parenting", "sarah hoffman", "transgender", bullying, cross-dressing, gender variance, pink boy, pink boys

TransActive Study Announcement

January 25, 2011 by Sarah

I received this press release today and thought some of you would be interested in participating in TransActive’s study–they’re looking at the effects of family support and acceptance on transgender and gender-nonconforming kids.

FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE

Portland, Oregon – January 24, 2011

TransActive Education & Advocacy, a leading national organization serving the needs of transgender and gender non-conforming children, youth and their families is in the beginning stages of conducting a national PRE and POST research study on the impact that affirmation of a child or youth’s gender non-conforming identity or expression has had on the youth and their family. 

The goal of this research is to evaluate the responses and eventually educate others on the effectiveness of providing supportive and affirming care to transgender and gender non-conforming children and youth.

Specifically, we are requesting:

1. A narrative account (min. 500 words) of your child’s emotional, behavioral, and physical health and family and social interactions PRIOR to being affirmed (supported) in their gender identity or gender expression. 

2. A narrative account (min. 500 words) of your child’s emotional, behavioral, and physical health and family and social interactions AFTER being affirmed (supported) in their gender identity or gender expression. 

It would be helpful to our study if you included an account of changes you’ve observed in any of the following areas: (This is completely optional, and at your discretion) 

Behavior 
Personality 
Self-esteem 
Emotions / Mood 
Relationships 
Health 
School performance 
Socialization
Family interactions 

This is an ongoing study and there is no current deadline for submissions. 

To Participate:

Share your narrative account in whichever format works best for you (plain text, Word, etc.) by sending them to TransActive by email or postal mail. 
Please enter “Narrative Account” in the subject line or header and send it to: 

Email: 
research@transactiveonline.org


Postal Mail: 
TransActive Education & Advocacy 
Attn: Sheryl Rindel, LPC, NCC 
1631 NE Broadway 
Ste. 355-T 
Portland, OR  97232 

Your privacy is of the utmost importance to us. While certain generalized details of your narrative may be used in our study or for educational purposes, absolutely no personal or identifying information (including specific geographic locations) will be included in any published research materials. 

If you have any additional questions about this study or research, please don’t hesitate to call our office at 503-252-3000 or email your inquiry to:info@transactiveonline.org


Further Research Participation Opportunities: 
If you would be willing to participating in future surveys and/or interviews for this or other future research projects please indicate your interest when sending your narrative accounts. 

Thank you. 

Jenn Burleton 
Executive Director 
TransActive Education & Advocacy

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Filed Under: Sarah Hoffman's Blog Tagged With: "sarah hoffman", "transgender", bullying, gender nonconforming, gender variance, parenting, pink boy, pink boys, transactive

And the Winner Is…

January 20, 2011 by Sarah

Screen shot 2011-01-20 at 12.37.01 PMI am pleased to announce that the winner of Jennifer Carr’s transcendent book about a transgender child, Be Who You Are is the awesome mom-blogger from Labels are for Jars (you should check out her website, too). Madame Labels, please email me at sarah_hoffman@yahoo.com with your address so I can send you the book.

I hope that all the rest of my readers will buy this book for your families, your children’s schools, and any gender-transcending child you know!

Thanks for playing.

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Filed Under: Reviews, Sarah Hoffman's Blog Tagged With: "Be Who You Are", "giveaway", "Jennifer Carr", "Labels are for jars", "sarah hoffman", "transgender", bullying, gender nonconforming, pink boy, pink boys

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