Sarah & Ian Hoffman

Building a culture of kindness. One book at a time.
Menu

  • Home
  • Books
    • Jacob’s New Dress
    • Jacob’s Room to Choose
    • Jacob’s School Play
    • Jacob’s Missing Book
  • About Us
  • Events
  • Press
    • Media Kit
    • Stories by Us
    • Stories about Us
  • Fight Book Bans
  • Contact

The Toy Question: Answered

October 14, 2010 by Sarah

So I told you that I’d let you know how McDonald’s responded to my query about gender bias and Happy Meal toys. This is what they said:

Thank you for taking the time to write McDonald’s and to share your thoughts with us about our Happy Meals.
 First, please be assured that none of our toys are meant to be gender-restricted. Rather, all of our toys are meant to be enjoyed by all our younger customers—both girls AND boys.

When we offer a Happy Meal with two different themes, our employees have been specifically trained to ask customers which of the two toys offered that week they would like, and not whether they would like a “girl” toy or a “boy” toy. I’m sorry if you’ve experienced anything different.

Please be assured, we would never want any of our promotions, games or premium items to disappoint our customers. Because you’re a valued customer, your comments are very important to us, and have been shared with our Marketing staff for their on-going review.

Which I thought was really cool.

I wrote back to thank them, and to suggest that some additional employee training may be warranted given how often we hear reports of the question “Girl toy or boy toy?” when a parent orders a Happy Meal. I encourage you to contact them too. It’s a small act of activism that has the potential to have a lasting impact on the cultural conversation about gender.

Whatever we think about McDonald’s, there is no question that their actions reverberate throughout our culture. The McDonald’s commercial aired this week featuring a gay teen was, according to the Sydney Morning Herald, meant to “recognize the diversity of McDonald’s customers in France.” When a mainstream corporation recognizes diversity of sexuality and gender, we are one step closer to broader cultural recognition and acceptance of our kids.

And, when you write to McDonald’s, don’t forget to tell them how cool they are.

Share

Filed Under: Uncategorized Tagged With: "Come as you are", "Forum" "KQED" "transgender", "French Mc Donald's ad", "gender nonconforming" "gender variant" "Elizabeth Rahilly" "Sarah Hoffman" "children gender" "gender kids" "transgender children", "gender variant" gender non-conforming parenting pink, "Sarah Hoffman" "Happy Meal"

Jacob's New Dress

by Sarah and Ian Hoffman

"Hopeful and affirming." - Kirkus Review

Buy the Book: Amazon | Barnes & Noble | Indiebound | Powell’s | Book Passage

Comments

  1. ECS says

    October 15, 2010 at 11:22 am

    What a great thing to do! Simple, funny, and effective. Good work, Sarah.

  2. Eunice says

    October 18, 2010 at 9:14 am

    It’s always nice to know when big corporations answers to questions raised to them. Wonderful share!

  3. Yam Erez says

    July 4, 2011 at 2:07 am

    I’m pleased you contacted them and they responded positively; I’m also pleased about the gay customer in their ad. Yet so many other things that McDonald’s represents displease me that I try not to patronize them. Good going anyway!

    • shoffman says

      July 4, 2011 at 8:52 am

      I know, McDonald’s isn’t exactly a place for optimizing health. But so many people patronize it that there’s a ripple effect in the world when they make a statement.

Buy the Books

Jacob's Missing Book

Buy at Bookshop.org

Jacob's School Play: Starring He, She & They!

Buy at Bookshop.org

Jacob's Room to Choose

Buy at Bookshop.org

Jacob's New Dress

Buy at Amazon

Testimonials

“Jacob’s New Dress is a brilliant and beautifully illustrated book and a must-read for all of us.”

Share

Diane Ehrensaft, Ph.D., Director of Mental Health, Child and Adolescent Gender Center at UCSF and author of "Gender Born, Gender Made: Raising Healthy Gender Non-nonconforming Children" February 9, 2014

Join our mailing list!
  • This field is for validation purposes and should be left unchanged.

Praise for our books

“This book has the ability to save lives and change the world. Everyone should read it.”

Share

Leslea Newman, author of "The Boy Who Cried Fabulous" and "Heather Has Two Mommies" February 9, 2014

Upcoming Events

Check out our upcoming events to see if we’ll be heading to your area.

Follow Us

Feed Instagram Mailing List

Copyright © 2025 by Sarah and Ian Hoffman • All Rights Reserved • Site design by Makeworthy Media