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Mompetition’s Interview with Sarah Hoffman

November 16, 2010 by Sarah

I’ve really been needing some humor lately. I think that maybe we all have. And so I called up one of the funniest women on the web, Valerie Stone Hawthorne of Mompetition. And because she is awesome, she agreed to put me in one of her xtranormal videos—an experience which stark. raving. mad. mommy has called “the mommy blogger equivalent of being on The Simpsons.” And she is right. I am beyond excited to present to you Mompetition’s Interview with Sarah Hoffman:

Let me know what you think.

And don’t forget to “like” Mompetition on facebook!

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Jacob's New Dress

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  1. Katherine says

    November 16, 2010 at 12:32 am

    Oh, you make me laugh!

    • shoffman says

      November 16, 2010 at 10:08 pm

      We aim to please.

  2. Steph says

    November 16, 2010 at 9:00 am

    Oh it was great, Loved it! Mompetition videos are so awesome.

    • shoffman says

      November 16, 2010 at 10:09 pm

      Thank you. It was almost all Valerie. She is hysterical.

  3. Patricia Eskovitz says

    November 16, 2010 at 9:22 am

    Amazingly funny but oh so sad.

    • shoffman says

      November 16, 2010 at 10:09 pm

      Yup, all those things at once…

  4. Patti says

    November 16, 2010 at 10:09 am

    I thought it was a real hoot! =)

  5. Eliz. says

    November 16, 2010 at 10:52 am

    TOO funny. “I think I have an emergency football in my car”!

  6. GlamorousArmy says

    November 16, 2010 at 11:48 am

    OMG That was hilarious!

  7. Dannie says

    November 16, 2010 at 12:57 pm

    I thought it was great. I’ve also read some of your blog. Thanks for sharing. I don’t have a son, but I’m very proud of the fact that there are indeed parents that truly love their children for who they are…it has always saddened me that girls like myself (tomboys) were seen as tough and awesome, yet boys were held to a different standard and made fun of if they liked dolls/pink whatever….I truly thank you for being your son’s best ally. We need more parents in the world like you!

    • shoffman says

      November 16, 2010 at 10:11 pm

      Thanks for saying that! I haven’t had a tomboy make that observation on the blog before. So true! I appreciate that you see the need for the social acceptance to go both ways.

      And you ARE tough and awesome.

      • Dannie says

        November 17, 2010 at 3:50 pm

        Thanks….what’s funny is that I think I have the girliest of girls and I have no idea what to do with the dolls she loves so much….I know plenty about matchbox cars, trains, lincoln logs, legos, and sports 🙂 ha ha ha….I love it! Let’s celebrate everyone’s individualism. Hate the labels though…still wince when I think of high school and even post high school because of my hair choices at times lol

  8. megan says

    November 16, 2010 at 2:33 pm

    will you be my room mom?!

    • shoffman says

      November 16, 2010 at 10:11 pm

      Absofrigginlutely.

  9. Jen says

    November 16, 2010 at 3:44 pm

    Saw you on Mompetition. Hilarious! But seriously, I don’t understand why people get so caught up in what boys want to wear/play with/etc. My mom had a fit when my son wanted a Cabbage Patch doll when we took him and my daughter to the Cabbage Patch Hospital for her birthday, but I just told her to get over it – she got a doll, he got a doll, they are happy and quite frankly that’s all I care about!

    • shoffman says

      November 16, 2010 at 10:13 pm

      You’ve got great priorities 🙂 And by letting your son have the doll he wanted, you are both supporting him and sending a message to the adults around you that it really is no big deal.

  10. Laurie says

    November 16, 2010 at 4:10 pm

    Sarah,

    You have, indeed, hit the big time! Congratulations!

    • shoffman says

      November 16, 2010 at 10:13 pm

      Thanks Laurie!!

  11. Juliana says

    November 16, 2010 at 7:36 pm

    Fabulous ! You are an inspiration to my family. We need more loving parents in this world.

    • shoffman says

      November 16, 2010 at 10:13 pm

      SO glad to hear it, thanks for saying that.

  12. Caroline says

    November 16, 2010 at 10:06 pm

    Brilliant!

  13. Jen L. says

    November 17, 2010 at 9:42 am

    Thank you, Sarah! And I’ve got an emergency doll in my car for pink boys who have been denied! Love this!

  14. Bedford Hope says

    November 17, 2010 at 2:15 pm

    This is great! The cartoon thing let’s you have fun with the content, create these dialogs, that somehow go beyond what is possible in a blog post; we know it’s a cartoon, it is supposed to be exaggerated. I have to suppress the desire to beat straw men all day long with this tool. If only our real world opponents weren’t so close to the caricature.

  15. Bella says

    November 17, 2010 at 5:15 pm

    This is the reply i put on her blog, i found you through her. I am glad you added me to your facebook page 🙂

    i love it, my son keeps his favorite color pink and purple a secret because my husbands family teases him…he painted my nails the other day and his uncle was calling him a girl…i wanted to punch him. i think i have written a blog or two about how i feel about all that…
    good work 🙂

    • shoffman says

      November 17, 2010 at 8:59 pm

      Thanks for sharing the comment here too! So sorry to hear your inlaws tease your son. That inspires angry wrath in any mama.

  16. Hartley Steiner says

    November 17, 2010 at 7:10 pm

    I am SO JEALOUS! I have totally wanted to do one of these!! And yours was TOO funny! Thank you for sharing this (you should’ve sent me the link!!)!

    Hartley
    http://www.hartleysboys.com

    • shoffman says

      November 17, 2010 at 8:05 pm

      Hartley, you should totally do one of these. Just send her an email!

      • Hartley Steiner says

        November 17, 2010 at 8:17 pm

        SRMM sent her an email for me — turns out her email address is a bit challenging to find… but I have run through a ‘script’ about SPD in my head a dozen times after I first saw Xtranormal. I think it would be PRICELESS.

        • shoffman says

          November 17, 2010 at 8:57 pm

          I think I just sent her a message on fb. You will be awesome. Let me know when it comes out!

          • Hartley Steiner says

            November 17, 2010 at 10:53 pm

            Ha! If it does come out, and even half as good as what I have running through my head, I will be using it as my opening for my SPD lectures. : ) You rock! Thanks.

            • shoffman says

              November 17, 2010 at 11:34 pm

              You mean you’d play it before your lectures? I think humor is such a great way to reach people. Hey, I’d really love to go to one of your talks some day. Do you ever come to the bay area?

  17. Hartley Steiner says

    November 17, 2010 at 11:53 pm

    Yes, before my lecture. I am hopeful (cross your fingers) that a new series of 1-day parent focused sensory conferences will start at the beginning of the year nation wide (schedule TBD). If so, I am sure that the Bay will be on our list. I grew up in Nor Cal and would love to go back. 🙂 I will keep you in the loop (of course!).

    • shoffman says

      November 18, 2010 at 12:25 am

      Definitely keep me posted. Our local group of sensory families would love to see you I’m sure.

  18. Roccie says

    November 18, 2010 at 1:25 pm

    I love seeing you and little guy Sam around town. I am here from Mompetition.

    Your story taught me to consider my response before I am given the opportunity to meet a child who is unfairly measured by standards that should not exist.

    I am grateful to be given the thoughtful introduction so I do not miss a beat when I meet a fellow like him. Instead I will take it all in stride and smother him with the love and acceptance he deserves.

    • shoffman says

      November 18, 2010 at 1:36 pm

      Welcome Roccie! Thanks so much for being willing to be more open to kids who are (I love how you said this) “unfairly measured by standards that should not exist.” Keep on reading & commenting!

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